
My name is Tina, I am married to Donovan. We have lost three babies caused From miscarriage Sara, Jordan,and Jacob and I know first hand how difficult it is, and how long it takes to heal. The pain of losing a child never goes away. If you are here and have found this site, first of all I want to tell you I am so sorry for your loss, weather you are the Mother or the Father, Grandmother or Grandfather,Sister or Brother. I am sure you would not be here if you did not love that child with all your heart.
Normally, following a death of a family member, we would expect support to come from those closest to us. Miscarriage is unusual in that we often find the most comfort comes from other parents that have experienced miscarriage and dealt with it in a healthy way. You will be amazed at the response that you will get when you mention miscarriage in a conversation.Sometimes people are afraid to even talk about it.
Because some of us don't even look pregnant, often it is our silence that prevents us from receiving the support we need.
I made this site to remember our UnbornAngels and our Newlyborn angels, As a parent of three UnbornAngels I want them to be recognized and appreciated as a real persons -a person who's life was cut short and who's death is to be mourned no less then that of any other child. It's so easy for people around you to not understand how important this child was and how very much you loved him/her. You might find that a lot of people even forget about your child. Or purposly avoid talking about him/her in fear that it might cause you more pain.
Unless they have experienced that kind of loss themselves. Its very hard for someone that hasn't experienced this to really understand the depth of what you are going through. Or how they can help to support you, They don't always know what to say or what not so say.
I do hope that you find this site helpful. I hope that for those of you that have not been through this can gain some kind of understanding of what your loved one might be feeling, and what they may need from you. The pain is indescribable. More then that I Hope and pray that you will find answers to your questions, and begin the "healing process"