
My name is Tina, I am married to Donovan. We have lost three babies two stillborn and one miscarriage Sara, Jordan,and Jacob. I know first hand how difficult it is, and how long it takes to heal. The pain of losing a child never goes away. If you are here and have found this site, first of all I want to tell you I am so sorry for your loss, weather you are the Mother or the Father, Grandmother or Grandfather,Sister or Brother or even a friend wanting to support a friend. I am sure you would not be here if you did not love that child with all your heart or the person that is going through this.
Normally, following a death of a family member, we would expect support to come from those closest to us. Miscarriage and infant loss is unusual in that we often find the most comfort comes from other parents that have experienced this heartbreaking experience and have dealt with it in a healthy way. You will be amazed at the response that you will get when you mention miscarriage or Infant loss in a conversation. Sometimes people are even afraid to even talk about it.
For those of us that have suffered a miscarriage or infant loss, often it is our silence that prevents us from receiving the support we need.
I made this site to remember our UnbornAngels and our Newlyborn angels, As a parent of three Unborn Angels I want them to be recognized and appreciated as a real persons -a person who's life was cut short and who's death is to be mourned no less then that of any other child. It's so easy for people around you to not understand how important this child was and how very much you loved him/her. You might find that a lot of people even forget about your child. Or purposely avoid talking about him/her in fear that it might cause you more pain.
Unless they have experienced that kind of loss themselves. Its very hard for someone that hasn't experienced this to really understand the depth of what you are going through. Or how they can help to support you, They don't always know what to say or what not so say.
I do hope that you find this site helpful. I hope that for those of you that have not been through this can gain some kind of understanding of what your loved one might be feeling, and what they may need from you. The pain is indescribable. More then that I Hope and pray that you will begin to start the long process of healing.